According to Masao Usui...Sex is............
I still remembered I'd a male friend who had just broken up was desperately wanting the 7th girlfriend to fulfill his sex desire (this was what he told me before in MSN). I was stunned of course listening to his confession. He added, a relationship without any intercourse will not last even at his age (20). Did he think that we, the girls are the sex machine? @_@Or anyone here think the same too?While I was reading Usui book, I've come across with this survey (created by Masao Usui)The Survey
- an expression of love
- the duty of a spouse
- emotional nourishment
- excitement or temptation
- a way of control, manipulation or selfishness
Sex = Love
I truly agree that when it comes to love, the only thing that fill in a man's head is sex. Sex... sex.. sex... what else? (Tell me if I am wrong)I still remembered I'd a male friend who had just broken up was desperately wanting the 7th girlfriend to fulfill his sex desire (this was what he told me before in MSN). I was stunned of course listening to his confession. He added, a relationship without any intercourse will not last even at his age (20). Did he think that we, the girls are the sex machine? @_@Or anyone here think the same too?While I was reading Usui book, I've come across with this survey (created by Masao Usui)The Survey
- Is it possible for a man to fall in love with a woman without having sexual intercourse with her? 100% yes
- Can having sex make the difference between falling in love and not falling in love for you? 100% no
- If she did not have sex with you, would you still love her? 100% yes
- If there's a woman whom you do not see yourself loving, and she has sex with you, would you fall in love with her? 100% no
- If you're dating a woman you've no significant interest in and she has sex with you, would this make you feel that she's special? 85% no, 15% maybe
- If you're dating and using her just for sex, what is the longest time you would date her? 20% one night, 40% one month
- If you were to date just for sex, but you have to date her X number of months before she can have sex with you, how long would you date her? 40% less than a month, 40% not more than 3 months, 20% not more than 6 months
- If you were dating a woman for sex, what are the chances you could fall in love with her? 50% unlikely, 50% VERY unlikely
- If you're dating a woman who is special but she does not have sex with you, does this make her more appealing or less? 100% more
- If you're dating a woman who is specail and she wants to wait for marriage before having sex, would you wait? 65%yes, 35% maybe
- If that means dating her for X number of months without sex, how long can you wait? 100% more than twelve months
- How long would you feel if the woman you marry has previously had sex with another man she loved? 15% bother a little, 85% bother a lot
- How would you feel if the woman you married had sex with the man she had dated previously 15% bother a little, 85% bother a lot
- How would you feel if the woman you married never had sex with another man? 85% very good, 15% bother a little
- Would you prefer woman you marry to have previously had no sex partners, or more than one? 90% no partners, 10% one or more partners
- Do you feel there is a difference between being in love and being in lust? 100% yes
Love ≠ SexSex ≠ Love Woman ≠ Sex machine!!!
Feel much better now..;D
